Whenever you want to help someone or whenever you feel powerless because a person you care about is going through a difficult situation and you can't get them out of that state, think about the following:
WE SHOULD NEVER WORRY ABOUT WHAT WE CAN'T SOLVE.
The person you care about has somehow chosen to go through this situation. By choice or by default. Because you chose this situation consciously or unconsciously, or because you chose something else that had nothing to do with your original path, which in the meantime ended up in this current situation. As you can see, energetically speaking, it was a choice. Ultimately that person chose not to notice.
YOU DIDN'T CHOOSE THE LIFE THAT PERSON HAS.
You didn't attract this person's problems and you have nothing to learn or evolve from them. That's not your energy. So you don't have to go through any of that. These problems are simply not yours. And you can't suffer for problems that aren't yours. If you choose to go through these problems, or suffer through these problems, you are vibrating in an energy that is not yours. And that will do you a lot of harm. And it won't do anything for the person in question.
I have a classic example of what I'm saying:
THERE ARE MANY MOTHERS WHO OFTEN SUFFER FOR THEIR CHILDREN.
Sometimes they experience their children's problems so much that they even suffer more than they do, taking away the space to experience their own problems and, consequently, to solve them. And with that they completely get out of your energy. And the children, in turn, when they have problems, run away from these mothers. They are afraid that they will suffer. And with this borrowed suffering, these mothers are causing their children to move away.
And in the end, they don't understand:
- I worry so much about my son, why does he walk away from me?
Well, that's why he walks away. The only thing he thinks is:
- Let me suffer in peace!
And now? Considering that you like that person and would like to help them... If you can't grieve with them, or for them, what can you do? walk away? But that's not being a friend. What is the energetically correct way to help her through this? There's only one way to help without getting out of your energy. And there's no need to walk away.
ALL HELP HAS TO BE GOOD FOR THOSE WHO ARE HELPED, BUT IT ALSO HAS TO BE GOOD FOR THOSE WHO HELP.
Then, in a short time, both fall.
If you notice, whenever we want to help someone, that person almost never takes our advice. It is rare for someone to do what the other person proposes.
It's because? Because that person doesn't want to do what we would do. She doesn't have our story. She has her story. She wants to be able to choose what she wants to do. She wants to have the strength to do what she must do. She wants to do things that have her color, her energy, her light. And only these things will lead her back to her path, where she should never have left. And it is not with our advice, with our color, with our energy, that she will return to her path.
SO HOW CAN WE EFFECTIVELY HELP A PERSON?
Simple.
Living our life. Living our life the best way we can. So that we can have a rich life, a good life, a colorful life. And you will notice that this alone will give you a lot of work.
On the day when we have a fantastic, intense life, when we can be happy and enlightened, we will be a great inspiration to those people we want to help so much.
Because the person will look at us and believe that it is possible to get here. Then, when she believes that it is possible, she will be able to look within herself for solutions to try to get here.
THIS IS REAL HELP.
Real help is not finding solutions to people's problems. The real help is inspiring people to believe that they are capable of solving their problems.
And in this way, you will solve yours.
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