Who you are ?

 FOCUS ON THE OTHER

Our civilization is going through a very difficult phase.

Most people have become disenchanted with religions, with intermediaries who supposedly know everything and who, by not looking at each person individually, massify.

The age of Aquarius, this new age that is approaching, is the age that helps us vibrate for "we are all different, we are all special", as opposed to the past age of Pisces where the vibration was held for each individual be part of the masses.

People today want to feel more and more special, they know they're not like everyone else, and they don't want mass spiritual treatment. Therefore, when they understand their uniqueness and realize that they will have to stop doing what everyone else does, think as everyone else thinks, and go after their individuality, they begin to internalize.

But when they try to get inside themselves, close their eyes to feel their energy – amazement! – inside it is dark, sad and heavy. There are even people who close their eyes and feel bad, feel a heaviness, feel dark, feel cold, and this is nothing more than a memory of Past Lives. Memories of back there, where things didn't go so well. Because actually when we incarnate, we bring all these memories. 

If I once died at the stake, burned, with tremendous anger and a great sense of injustice, when I am born I will be born revolted and with a horrible sense of injustice. When I close my eyes to meditate, what will happen? What will I find when I try to go to the emotion that lives in my chest? Now, imagine the memory accumulation of many, many, many, many lives? Since we don't clean, everything inside us becomes heavier, darker and more unpleasant. And most people, when they feel the weight, what do they do? 

Instead of understanding that you need to clean... 

Instead of understanding that what is there is your own energy, the accumulation of the vibration of your own choices, and that you have to face and learn from mistakes... and clear... 

Instead of activating, letting come, opening the memory trap for things to come... to clear... 

Not.

People go outside of themselves. And remain outside.

FOCUS ON WHAT THE OTHER THINKS

And what does it mean to have the focus outside? Instead of the person finding his essence in order to be who he is, the person ends up acting and thinking about what others expect of him. Even developing your own tastes, for example, doing what others do, what others think is good. 

And the fact that our society is increasingly globalized means that there is not much choice, one person ends up doing what everyone else does, and there goes his uniqueness, his uniqueness. 

Imagine a place where everyone goes. It's full of people. Everyone chooses to go to that place that day. People don't do different things. People are doing the same things more and more. So they don't have to think too much. To integrate. 

And as they don't do new, different things, there won't be different things to do either. So, for example, a person is alone, and instead of taking this night to meditate, to be with themselves, read a book, watch a movie, think about life, mourn maybe, do some Emotional Meditation to be able to go to your pains and clean up, no, call your friends and go to the movies. That is, people who cannot be alone cannot even start their evolutionary processes. 

AND THE MORE TIME PASSES WITH THIS FOCUS ON THE OTHER, THE EMPTIER YOUR ENERGY BECOMES.

And as the energy becomes empty, the person also starts not wanting to be with himself... The person depends so much on others that he doesn't optimize his universe. There comes a time when you don't even know what you like. It's a vicious cycle, because the less she knows who she is, the more she wants the presence of others. And the more you want the presence of others, the less you stay in touch with who you are. 

There is a theory that every hour we spend with others we should spend two hours with ourselves. It may even be an exaggeration, but imagining the opposite, every two hours with others, we spend an hour with ourselves? It could be the solution. 

WHEN THE PERSON INSISTS ON FOCUSING ON THE OTHER, WHAT WILL HAPPEN?

Life will start to bring circumstances to force a person to be alone. If she doesn't understand the purpose, if she doesn't understand this theory – if she doesn't understand that when life asks us to be alone, it's for us to be alone – she will start desperately looking for others, desperately wanting to be with others, and it ceases to carry out its energetic individualization process. 

There's an amazing Jesus formula for this: 

- Do with that your life is so incredible, so wonderful, that when someone else will have to be to improve it. In the last case to keep it. Never to get worse. And because of that, it will attract very good relationships. 

People, by not taking care of their lives, make them so bad that when someone comes, anything will do. That's why relationships are unfulfilling. Because the person unconsciously uses the energy of the other to fill the hole left by the absence of their own energy